Can we live with intuition and ambition? My Conversation with Ceremonialist Alexandra Raquel:
Have you ever wondered what it would feel like to truly live in harmony with yourself? To stop running on autopilot, ignore the endless to-do lists, and just be? In the latest episode of Curious Life of a Childfree Woman, I had the absolute pleasure of chatting with Alexandra Raquel, an ordained priestess, ceremonialist, and expert in something she calls “soul work.” We dove headfirst into the powerful idea of reconnecting with our true selves, and believe me, this is a conversation you don’t want to miss.
Alex brings a fresh perspective to the concept of “soul work”—a practice of tuning in to our deep inner wisdom (or as she calls it, our “soul’s voice”). We talked about living in sync with nature’s rhythms, finding a balance between our inner energies, and why we need to make space for rest (yes, rest!) if we want to live fully. So, if you’re curious about what it means to slow down, turn inward, and live in a way that feels more authentic, keep reading!
Soul Work: A Journey Back to Ourselves
Soul work. It sounds magical, doesn’t it? Alex describes it as the practice of listening to our inner voice—that wise part of us that’s often drowned out by the noise of the outside world. In a society that’s all about staying busy and productive, soul work invites us to pause, tune back into our bodies, and rediscover the intuition that’s always there, waiting to guide us. Imagine living a life that feels true to who you are, not just what you think you should be.
Embracing Our Natural Cycles and Loving Every Season
One of my favorite takeaways from this conversation was Alex’s insight on embracing our natural cycles, including times for rest. Think of it like the changing seasons—there’s a time for growth, a time to bloom, and yes, a time to rest. Nature doesn’t apologize for taking a pause, and neither should we. Alex encouraged us to see rest not as something we “earn” but as a necessary part of living in sync with our own rhythms. What if rest became just as celebrated as our biggest accomplishments?
Balancing Feminine and Masculine Energy
Here’s another gem from our chat: the balance of feminine and masculine energy. And no, we’re not talking about gender here. Feminine energy is all about flow, intuition, and connection, while masculine energy drives structure, action, and productivity. Many of us lean heavily into masculine energy because, let’s face it, society often tells us that productivity is king. But what happens when we create a little more room for flow, for creativity, for just being? When we honor both energies within us, we create a life that feels rich, balanced, and, most importantly, sustainable.
Curious How to Implement This in Your Life?
If you’re itching to explore what it means to live in harmony with your true self, here are a few ideas to get you started:
Create moments for soul work: Find small moments of quiet throughout your day to reconnect with that inner voice. Whether it’s through meditation, journaling, or just a mindful pause, tuning in to yourself is the first step.
See rest as part of the cycle: Instead of treating rest as something to “earn,” try viewing it as an essential part of your rhythm. Let rest be its own reward.
Invite more balance: Notice if you’re leaning heavily on productivity. Where could you invite in more flow, creativity, or connection?
Gather your people: Surround yourself with others who inspire you, challenge you, and encourage you to stay curious. Community can be a powerful mirror for the parts of ourselves we’re still discovering.
Let’s Stay Curious Together.
This episode left me feeling inspired and reminded of how powerful it can be to live fully and freely. I hope it stirs up a little curiosity in you, too.
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